Now, the image of Stalin does not get Roxy hot and ready for action. This is probably because he was a paranoid mass murderer, traits Roxy would never want in a lover. However, there is something appealing about a dictator, or being a dictator yourself. The sense of power and adoration are certain to be invigorating for anyone. The opportunity to make the laws and enforce them on your worshipping public makes this role-play very appetizing. This is why Roxy recommends playing a new role and being in charge or letting your partner take control.

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This does not require that you are capable of shouting in another language (although Roxy thinks languages are hot). You simply to tell your partner that you want to try a little role-play and make the rules. If you are inclined to shouting your orders, Mussolini style, Roxy recommends finding a quiet place on campus where your next-door neighbor can’t hear you. It is not a good idea to sexile your roommate for this kind of role-play, and Roxy has found many empty hidden places on campus to explore. This is a good opportunity to get out of your comfort zone.

Roxy always thinks that her readers should be dictating the rules of sexual encounters and knows that you are confident enough to ask for what you want. And there are some rules you must always enforce; Roxy is always a dictator when it comes to safe sex. So once you have satisfied these guidelines, role-playing can be a new adventure. Therefore, she recommends telling your partner to sit back and relax while you take control and your partner bends to your naughty whims and desires.

Roxy knows that many people have comfort barriers in sex and might find the idea of being totally in charge frightening. Others might find the idea of giving up power and control during sexual activities to be upsetting, which is why Roxy recommends doing this with your favorite sexual partner, one you feel safe with and trust. Make sure that you have discussed this with your partner before starting to fulfill your fantasy in order to avoid confusing or seriously upsetting him or her. Knock down some barriers and be vulnerable with your partner with this opportunity to dictate the laws of your sexual pleasure. Do you have a position you’ve always wanted to try? Well, now you have the opportunity to demand it from your partner, who will probably be more than willing to appease you.

Taking over and demanding your partner to fulfill all of your naughty desires can result in some unexpected joy. Likewise, letting your partner call the shots might be enlightening. Not only can this be an immensely pleasurable experience, but it will also educational — you may be surprised by the thoughts your partner has in mind.

Taking on a new persona might just be great practice in acting, and you may find new skills to help you get what you want. Or, if you’re like Roxy, it will fun to pretend to be a different person for a sexual romp that will result in incredible pleasure for both you and your partner. So, enjoy making your demands and receiving exactly what you want from your adoring public. Or adore the object of your desire. Roxy is certain that any dictator would approve.